The Non - Believers

I have numbers of friends raised questions about marriage..how impractical is the idea of being married they said. Well...i am not totally rejecting this idea nor that i am supporting. Whether we realised or not, more and more of us are getting scared to get married regardless men/women. Marriage are suppose to be a sacred 'thing' that we share with our loved one till death do us apart..well at least that was the intention.
I am also have my own 'history' that once break my belief on marriage life. But i am still not ready to share the story here as i have thrown the sad memories far away from my mind..although i am not totally succeeded. Is it true that beautiful marriages are no longer exist?. Arent we suppose to be responsible of success or failure of one relationship that we are having? Do we want to give up giving hope before we actually try it?
I have been married to my husband for two years. its actually too short to determined the success rate of my marriage..but my husband has been married to his late wife for 18 years before she lost her battle for cancer. And he has been talking about her until now..and ive learnt that they used to do everything together..go to the market together, exercise together even they go together to fetch kids from school...i was not believe him,i thought he just bluffing, but it comes out true.. and i want that same kind of relationship that he had with her but now its with me. So i chose to make it works..and hell..its not easy..but never make it difficult..
Well, everybody has their own ways to make the relationship worked, but i hope all of us don't see marriange as a gambling..we don't gamble over our husbands, wives, kids, our family..we choose and we strive for what we have chosen.
Untuk suami2...ada sbb isteri datangnya dari rusuk kirimu itu, supaya dia dekat dengan hatimu.
Untuk isteri2...besar mana pun pangkat kita hari ini, masih lagi kita perlukan keampunan dan keredhaan suami untuk kita berbahagia di hari yg kekal abadi..Wallahualam..ciao.