MARRIAGE

Apparently we were talking about marriage today..(my close frens n i were chit chatting thru emails...hehe..sooo productive..)..well, some of us are already married and some are getting married soon and some of us are still searching for Mr Right.
So, the topics was so hot that we all took half of our day to discuss it (well..not exactly discuss it..merely throw the crap out of our mind)
Since i am the most senior and according to them i am the most experienced one, yeah rite..so i shared with them some of my past experiences on marriage but comes to think of it, i have failed once and still struggling with the current one, why should they listen to me??haha
Well, everybody makes mistakes...i did and still do. Everybody does right? but the important thing is we learnt from it. As i told my frens, my husband and i never yell to each other, whenever he gets angry i mute...not a single word comes out from my mouth and i wait..and wait..until he cools down..same goes with him..and it works perfectly well. We seldom fight and i wish we'll stay like that forever.
As for me, i can lose my temper just by a click..so easy like i were made of fire..asyik nak meletop!! but iam also the easiest person for anyone to please..iam not demanding in any way (yolahh tu..)and iam also do not like to make things big out of it..as against my hubby, hes always cool, he talks very calmly, he thinks before he speaks(for me...jerit dulu baru pikir..)he is very isolated/individual person but hes also the hardest person to admit if he was wrong, never say sorry unless the court told him to do so..byk lagi lah yg tersangat opposite dengan perangai aku.
But i think things like that makes us bonded and strong together..things that might looks like the leakiness of the relationship is actually the strong points that we always overlook..
Some of us may put their target on when is the right time for them to think seriously about settling down. i did that too...twice in fact..dua2 pun aku langgar.
The thing is, we just do not know when our jodoh will come, some has been a coupled for 10 years and ended up marrying someone else, and some know each other merely a month and spent their life together forever. 2 things are going to be so mysterious forever..they are 'jodoh' and 'maut'
So for those who are still searching..keep searching and always positive about it, if u have not found ur MR Right, means..Allah has a better plan for u.
For those who are getting married, be well prepared physically and mentally cos believe me, its going to be so different from the day where u were only a 'pacar'..
The true color of both of you will be revealed as time goes by..time tu..so many things will pop out in your mind and maybe also from your mouth..sabar je k.
And lastly for those who are being married to your beloved partner (including me), it takes everything to make it works..we fight, we make up, we demand, we compromise, we yell, we smile, we hate, we love,we share, we understand...many things we always do to our partner that it might takes the whole day to write it here..
And for all of us..for able to love and to be loved..we should embrace LOVE..doesn't matter how hard is the relationship can be..we do need it..CiAO